Effects of Domestic Violence on Children

Children of all ages are negatively impacted by domestic abuse.  There are no exceptions to this rule.  This is a limited list of consequences children suffer from abuse in the home.

Physical

• Physical Abuse
• Chronic Head Aches
• Stomach or Digestive Problems
• Bed-wetting
• Increased or Decreased Appetite
• Trouble Sleeping
• Hair Pulling or Nail Biting
• Developmental Delays

Behavioral, Social & Emotional

• Aggressive
• Angry
• Hostile
• Oppositional Behavior
• Fear
• Anxiety
• Withdrawal
• Depression
• Low Self-Esteem
• Nightmares
• Phobias
• Passive or Clingy
• Role Reversal
• Poor Impulse Control

Cognitive Problems

• Lower Cognitive Functioning
• Poor School Performance
• Lack of Conflict Resolution Skills
• Pro-Violence Attitude
• Belief in Rigid Gender Stereotypes

Long-term effects on children include a higher rate of adult depression, and an increased tolerance for violence in relationships.  Boys raised in abusive homes often grow up to be abusers; and girls raised in abusive homes often grow up to be victims.